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Judy Stuckey (Arthur) - Class Of 1965

Judy Stuckey (Arthur)



 
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10/27/10 11:55 AM #1    

Thomas L. Heritier

Died  1/11/08


01/23/14 05:21 PM #2    

Martha Edwards

Judy and I were inseparable in junior high (much to my mother's chagrin!)

And our friendship had a rough and hurtful ending that haunted me into adulthood.But thank god we reconnected before she died and we said goodbye.

Bye Judi!!


11/17/14 03:49 AM #3    

Carolyn Coats (Medendorp)

Judith Arthur: Newspaper Obituary and Death Notice

Saginaw News (MI) - Tuesday, January 15, 2008

Deceased Name: Judith Arthur

Arthur, Judith Grand Blanc, Michigan Age 60, of Grand Blanc, passed away Friday, January 11, 2008 at Genesys Health Park. Memorial Service will be held at Hill Funeral Home, 11723 S. Saginaw Street, Grand Blanc at 11:00 a.m., Friday, January 18, 2008 with Rev. Roger Colby officiating. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Society of Prevention of the Cruelty to Animals (SPCA) or the Grand Blanc Senior Center. Judith was born June 29, 1947 to Vera (Stiver) and Bill Stuckey in Columbus, Ohio. She graduated from Arthur Hill High School and received her Master's Degree in rehabilitation and counseling at MSU. Judi worked as Director of the Juvenile Delinquent Center in Genesee County for 30 years until retiring. She enjoyed traveling, but loved spending time with her dogs. She will be missed by her mother, Vera Stuckey; brother in-law, David Moen; aunt, Mildred Stiver; cousins, Sherie Zinn, Keith Stiver, Bruce Stiver and Scott Stuckey; aunt and uncle, Russell (Jean) Stuckey; good friend, Barbara Humphreys and special friends, Nancy Albert and Sharon Cutler. Preceded in death by her father, Bill Stuckey and sister, Lynda Eagle.

02/08/24 04:47 PM #4    

Karen Hassberger (Hoerauf)

This comment is from Judy's ex-husband, Gregg,  who recently reached out to leave this heart-felt message:

Judy Stuckey (Arthur)

Dear Judi

 

It was only now that I learned of your passing ,this Feb 5 2024.. you have been gone for many years now.

 

For some reason, I have been thinking of you contiuously for weeks . . can’t explain it and didn’t understand it. Since our divorce, I can’t think of a handful of times when I have thought of you..to my shame. That was long ago. .1975 when we finally parted.. Learning of your passing flooded me with feelings,memories and also a very deep sadness . . I was shocked and surprised at my reaction, we had left each other in anger back then.  I always imagined and hoped that you were going to have a good and happy life after ours . . which was so full of tumultuous moments and events. . These last few months I wanted so much to just reach out and to you and tell you how deeply I apologize for the life I gave you and what you had to endure with me. 

 

When I came home from Vietnam, I was genuinely a lost soul. . a deeply troubled combat Marine . . When I found you, I was drowning and desperate for a life raft  . . you were my life raft. You did not deserve the chaos that I brought into your life. .you were a good and a sweet person, trusting to a fault when it came to me. My PTSD kept me in a nightmare then and for many many years afterward. It pursued me literally like a demon and ruined nearly everything and everybody that meant anything to me . . I live with the remorse and knowledge that my life was filled with good people along the way who only wanted to help, who tried, but eventually gave up..you were among them, the most important and also one of my deepest and saddest regrets. 

 

I am so sorry 

 

God bless you and keep you  

 

Gregg 


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